Thursday, June 23, 2016

70 years ago today ...

Bob and Barbara (Becker) Greenley
1946
70 years ago – June 23, 1946, would be my parents 70th wedding anniversary. They meet after my dad had returned to Roseburg at the end of WWII.  My mother was working in the office at Frieghtways, where my grandfather had a cold storage unit for the dairy product he sold.  When WWII ended, he would talk to my mom how excited he was to have his son, Bob, come home after 3 years away. 

My father arrived home Dec. 12, 1945. Quote from my grandmother’s diary:
“Bob came home (she underlined it twice!) about 1 pm.  Lela was outside & saw him coming, when I heard her scream I ran out too & met him in the yard.”
                                                                                         
My father got a job driving truck for Freightways, and they met.  The “courting” started when my mom purchased a car – but didn’t have her driver’s license, and didn’t know how to drive.  My dad offered to give her driving lessons.

It was pleasantly surprised to see their courtship unfold in my grandmother’s diary:
Feb. 2, 1946 (Sabbath)
Such a happy day, Lela, Austin & Bob all off to S.S.(Sabbath School)) & church, daddy did not go, had nice dinner. Lela & Pat went to sleep. Lela is all in for sleep & rest. All went skating in eve. Bob took Barbara Becker skating. (Barbara is the office girl at Freightways, pretty)

Sunday, Feb. 3, 1946:
Bob and Barbara (Becker) Greenley
circa 1946
Had busy day, Lela & Pat came down from Oakland & we washed, Lela packed for her & Bill, they left about noon. Pat wanted Grandma to come along. Bill is 6ft 33/4 in. tall.  Bob brought Barbara to see us, teaching her to drive her car.

Wed. Feb. 6, 1946:
Made Lela an apron & cookies & sent a pk. to Lela. Bob went out with Barbara & did not get to bed till 11:30. Gave him 4 hr. sleep.

Sun., Feb. 10, 1946
Snowed & sunshine, Bob worked forenoon. Bob gave Barbara driving lessons in afternoon. Glenn & Nadine came. Glenn ate dinner. I wrapped a bundle of papers to send to Philippines.

Sun. Mar. 31, 1946: …. “Barbara has her driver’s license.”

Tues., April 23, 1946:
Everett started back to school, from measles. Daddy went north; getting all the cheese he wants sold 900 lbs. He can make $100 a week. I ironed; Barbara came for dinner, getting lively & happy.

My father also started building his first house that spring.  The first diary entry to mention “Bob’s place”was May 21, 1946:

My parent's first home. A version of this house is still there at
2722 W. Bradford Ct., Roseburg
“Ironed a  big ironing. Bob & Bill went out to Bob’s place and cut a drive way to his place thru poison oak & got poison oak.” My dad had a horrible reaction to the poison oak – and suffered from it for more than a week.

And two short months later:
July 24, 1946:
"Ironed & mended. Billie & I drove out to see Bob's house & to see Bob & Barbara in their new home. have lovely refrigerator & iron."